you can ignore most posts here. since they are advices from men who never touched a woman anyway. LOL
other than what Mrs Law has said, I would add a few things, for your own sake:
1, dont see this as the chance of your life time, you will be involved too deeply unnecessarily, and you will likely to screw up because you are too nerves, treat this as a excellent excersice oppotunity, try out new tictacs, try to be a man, say things you didnt know you were able to say, etc. if in you end up getting the girl, it is a bonus, if you end up not getting the girl, at least you done some practice and you now know what dont work ^_^.
2, she didnt live her 21 years of life as an idiot, to further yanshen's point, she may appear to be innocent and naive, but deep down, she has burning desires and knowledges of everything you want to know (you know what i mean), so dont treat her as a child, treat her as a woman, she will feel she is more respected and she will know that you are not stupid.
3, there will be a point, after enough hint and get-close-to-her work, you have to make a move or you have to give up. you will have to tell her how you feel, tell her you want to be more than just "friends", and ask her to make a decision. if you infinitely delay this move, she will think of you as coward, girls dont like cowards, they like man who knows what they want.
4, that said, it doesnt mean you should rush it either. it is hard at times to determine "are we ready for this", you better delay it a bit then rush it. she may just started to like you and you will scare her off.
5, i can not stress this enough, dont try to be her best friend, you do not want to be her best friend. if you ever became her best friend it will be too awkward to then transit into couples.
these are just some experince from a man who had many failures.
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